Drunk Girls
This title (track 2 on LCD Soundsystem’s new totallyfreakingawesome album) is perhaps a little too descriptive for my now-exhausted body’s feeling on how Coachella 2010 went, but it was an absolutely amazing weekend:
1. My email didn’t work! THANK YOU, 70,000 hipsters a day tweeting, texting and updating your Facebook statuses (statii?)! I couldn’t try to work if I tried!!
2. I didn’t even want to try because I was having such a wonderful time. You know, I loved seeing the bands (LCD SOUNDSYSTEM IS SOOOOO AWESOME!!!!), but I had just as much fun in the RV, oh yes, THE RV, I drove down there, consuming an in ordinate amount of string cheese, samosas and wine/Trader Joe’s beer varietals. Oh, and having the kind of girl talk that is really magical in its banality and silliness because it changes you despite of, or maybe because of, its banality and silliness. I doubt there was a thought that Suganya, Penny and I shared that hasn’t been shared before, but there is such a comfort in sharing close quarters with two ladies who you know just want the best for you.
3. I laughed a lot. My sister and I took horrible photos together.
4. I taught Penny and Suganya how to play Wizard, the greatest card game ever. I sweated a lot. Sometimes we took naps.
5. I got some blisters. We broke a circuit in the RV but I could fix it because I watched an interminable video on how to operate it before we left. IT WAS AWESOME.
Needless to say, it’s hard to be back in the real world. Laurie and I were talking the other day about this New York Times article we’d read on vacation and its relationship to happiness, and how the biggest boost you get is in anticipation. Which means you need to take more frequent, shorter trips, rather than shooting your whole wad (meaning, your accrued vacation time) at once. I also think what was striking about the article was how it mentioned that those who felt “very relaxed” during their vacations felt the post-vacation happiness the most. This is my new philosophy on vacations. To build absolutely no expectations around them, to not even care what I see really. I had some bands highlighted on the Coachella stages list, but I didn’t see all of them, and I DIDN’T CARE! I really didn’t. I just went to go, to hang out with Penny and Suganya and drive an RV for the first time and see what the kids were up to these days.
And I had the best time.







April 21st, 2010 at 4:35 am
I had the best time too, dude! I have been glowing ever since I came back into the city. That vacation was exactly what I needed and I can’t say thank you enough for it! I am so glad you included the geese picture!
April 21st, 2010 at 5:17 pm
Nice! And also: jealous!
April 21st, 2010 at 5:33 pm
So jealous! That looks like such fun.
April 24th, 2010 at 1:46 pm
Very cool. And I like your fancy hat.
I agree that flexible plans and relatively low expectations make vacations more enjoyable. It’s hard for me to be super relaxed when I’m going somewhere I’ve never been before though.
April 26th, 2010 at 2:14 pm
I love the hat!
April 26th, 2010 at 10:58 pm
Thanks for the compliments on the hat! It is actually Suganya’s; she was kind enough to lend it to her pasty friend (me). I wouldn’t have had the courage to wear it in fact if I hadn’t needed sun cover desperately, but yay, I’m glad it looked OK!
July 7th, 2010 at 7:23 pm
I hope you don’t stop the blog! I’ve been reading for ages…nice to hear from another 30-something professional woman - who is still, argh, dating. Plus, I get to read vicariously about L.A. I’ll re-start mine and I hope you re-start, too!